This is what it sounds like when doves cry.

[Dark-Angel]

I'll get right to the point I'm in LOVE with the most sweetest, most wonderful girl I've ever seen. I don't her parents "aprove" of me and I haven't seen or heared from her in almost 7 months. I think I pushed the whole relationship thing on her to fast. I didn't mean to be so pushy it's just that when ever I was with her my heart skiped a beat and there was this undiscrible feeling that just overwhelmed me with joy. Now because of my stupity I my have lost her forever. I Know alot of you are thinking "Don't be so hard on yourself, there's plently of fish in the sea." Belive me I've tried to just forget her and move on with my life. I can't do it. I'm not asking for her to take me out of pity, I don't want that. All I'm asking for is forgiveness and a chance to start over again. There's only so many tears my pillow can hold. If there's any advice anyone can give me I'd realy apriciate it. Thank you all.
Dark-Angel :haloslip: :cry:

[Rose N. Crantz]

Honey, you're quoting Prince. It's time for some serious reevaluation. ;-)

[WenchLadyKate]

Honey, you're quoting Prince. It's time for some serious reevaluation. ;-)

Bwahahaha!

Seriously, dude, nice first post. No intro or anything. But on topic, if you haven't heard from this girl in 7 months, that should probably tell you something. I'm definately not thinking that you shouldn't be too hard on yourself, I'm thinking that you've realized that you screwed up and scared her away. She's probably getting on with her life, you should do the same. Sorry to be brutally honest, but hey, you asked.

[Ysobelle]

Maybe her parents want someone who can spell?

Seriously. You sound very young. I'd suggest chalking this up to an experience you probably needed to have at some point. Write some bad poetry, grieve honestly, and then move on. Not all life lessons are pretty or fun, but they do at least teach you what not to do next time.

[Dark-Angel]

So I should just give up then? OK. I guess I'll have to just suck it up deal. Fine. After all we all can't have a happy love life. Maybe if I change my approach, instead of being kind, caring, and sensitive I should be more arrogant, self centered, and just an all round scumbag. Yeah that sound about right. Well thank you all for you help I appreciate it thanks. Oh, and for all of you who are in "love" don't bother, cause it's not worth it. find yourself a nice hobby instead, like skydiving without a parachute it's alot more fun and it doesn't hurt as much. If I seem a little bitter it's because I'm tired of all these little girls saying they want some knight in shining armor to come and wisk them away on his white enchanted horse and when they get him they use him and kick him to the curb. Oh, and guys don't think we're any better cause we're not. We say we want that blonde haired, blue eyed, big breasted goddess, and when we get her what do we do? That's right we run off with every VD infected tramp who'd put out after a few beers. I guess the lesson here is, love is just a word you use to get people of the opposite sex to do what you want, or get in their pants. Ether way it's a four letter word, and we all know that we shouldn't use four letter words cause there bad. So let's add this word to the list of bad words we shouldn't use. I thank you.

[Pathos]

Ooooooooooooookay.

:unamused:

[biker]

Chill out and have some dip. Do you think everyone here o nthis board has always had a happy love life? Hell Dude, I was getting divorced and caught my live in G/F cheating on me on my BDAY. ya get over it. Like Yso said, do something get it out of your system and get on with life. Life doesnt just stop. you never said why her parents dont like you. BTW not heard from her in 7 months? unless she's a covert operative in some secret govenrment agancy, it was over 7 months ago.

[lady Amalthea]

maybe it's just me but it just seems like this person wants to stir up stuff on the boards. Or maybe it's just because I'm always suspicious but this guy just seems to be spouting a bunch of hooey just to see what reaction he gets. If I'm wrong here then I apologize in advance. But what guy who obviously has no connection to the IWG or Rogues come onto a forum that is 90% percent women to piss and moan. Again if I'm totally wrong Then I apologize.

[SilverMirth]

I've taken some prime examples from both of your posts.
. ...I think I pushed the whole relationship thing on her to fast. I didn't mean to be so pushy...
... Maybe if I change my approach, instead of being kind, caring, and sensitive...
Whoa! hold if you were being this great "kind, caring, sensitive" guy you wouldn't have been pushy about anything. You would have listened to HER wants ands needs about where SHE wanted this "relationship" to go and respected them. Then you might have had a slim chance of making a go of it.


I should be more arrogant, self centered, and just an all round scumbag I think you already have this down pat

7 MONTHS see the emphasis. on the months? she's not interested. move on to a new obession.

[Lady Sarah]

Wow.... ladies and gents, I present you the NEW DRAHHHMA KING!!

Dude, chill. What the bloody bess did you expect? You come in here, no hi, no introduction, you quote Prince, give us your tepidly sordid love history, whine and piss and moan over how to get her back, what to do, then when advice is given, you get all bitchy on us?

You're young, you'll get over it. Trust me, it ain't all roses and daffodils honey. If you want to dry yourself up into a cynical bastard, go ahead - you sure as hell won't win any ladies with that attitude.

[WenchLadyKate]

:stunned: Uh, wow.

This is this dude's first and second post. No intro, no info and lots of drama. I call shananigans.

[lady Amalthea]

:stunned: Uh, wow.

This is this dude's first and second post. No intro, no info and lots of drama. I call shananigans.

so I'm not the only one who feels this, good.

[Lady Sarah]

so I'm not the only one who feels this, good.

nah... you're both not alone. I'm sure we're all reading off the charts on the bullshit detector here.

[biker]

drama king>??? I thought it was a girl.

[Jules]

Yea hell I think the friggin needle broke off of mine....

anyone got a spare?

[Rose N. Crantz]

Now, where is that tiara? Ah yes, I seem to recall having seen it around here somewhere. That fellow in purple had it, I believe... :roll:

[Dark-Angel]

You guys are right. I'm sorry. it's just that I'm tried of being kicked a side for some guy who just treats women like trophy it's not right. Why is it's that I put my heart & soul in to making the girl I'm with happy. Maybe I'm just a magnet for psychos, Takes one to know one I guess. Look I'm not saying I'm prefect. Far from it, but I'm not gonna lie the the girl I'm with and tell her everything's alright when it's clearly not. I'd rather have someone be honest with me then lie. That way if my feelings are hurt at least she was honest and I respect that. I'm ranting again ain't I. Sorry its just that I hate have no control over a major part of my life. I feel weak. Anyway I not trying to start trouble, and I am grateful for all the advice. I'm just tired of being hurt. Well I'm late for work I gotta go.

[biker]

yer not starting trouble, but when you show up unknown on a board and cry "Oh woe is me" then tell us that you havent seen the bonnie wee lassie for nigh on 7 months, well its all said above. if ya want to stay, fine. go intro yourself in the hussie's hangout.

[Lady Sarah]

Sorry its just that I hate have no control over a major part of my life. I feel weak. Anyway I not trying to start trouble, and I am grateful for all the advice. I'm just tired of being hurt. Well I'm late for work I gotta go.

if you feel out of control, then it's time to step back, re-evaluate that part of your life, grow a set of marbles and take control of your life.

[Gemdrite]

No offense, and completely off topic, but could you please proofread your posts before posting them? One or two mistakes could easily be ignored, but your posts have significant numbers of errors, and it is distracting from the point of your post, as well as difficult to understand the point in the first place.

[Cyranno DeBoberac]

Dark-Angel, don't listen to the nattering nabobs of negativity here on the board. This place is mostly full of frustrated old hags whose best years are loooooooong behind them. When they come across someone young and as full of life as you, they conspire to suck the joy from their souls like vampires until the person is left as nothing but a withering husk.

But fear not brave soul. I'm here for you. I'm going to take care of you and guide you through these dark times.

First off, you've been approaching this problem from the wrong angle. You can't just sit back and wait. She obviously cares for you very deeply. She's just having her heart held hostage by her cold and bitter parents. As most married people do, they've forgotten what love is all about.

You need to be proactive. She'll never know your true feelings unless you tell them to her face. Repeatedly.

Leave her multiple messages on her voice mail.

Call her, but don't say anything if she answers. She'll know that you love her so much that you derive pleasure just from heraring her say "Hello? Hello? Who is this?".

Write her love poems. But don't leave them in her mailbox; her over-protective parents probably screen her mail. Deliver them through her bedroom window. This is easier if you tie the note to a brick first.

She needs to know that you are always on her mind. A good way to let her know is by secretly photographing her in public, from a distance with a telephoto lens, and sending her the pictures, preferably affixed to the brick with the love poem.

That's a good start for now. Don't expect her to fly into your arms right away though. Young women like to be coy and play hard to get. These things take time and lots effort. This is only the first of many, many steps. After you've done the above for a while, report back here with your results and I'll let you know where to go from there.

The most important thing for you to always remember is that love doesn't just "happen". It needs to be created, nurtured and grown. By force if necessary.

The second most important thing you need to remember is that women like to be cryptic. Everything has a hidden meaning. For instance, restraining orders are just another way of saying "I love you".


I hope this helps.


Solidarity, my brother!

[Rhia]

maybe it's just me but it just seems like this person wants to stir up stuff on the boards. Or maybe it's just because I'm always suspicious but this guy just seems to be spouting a bunch of hooey just to see what reaction he gets. If I'm wrong here then I apologize in advance. But what guy who obviously has no connection to the IWG or Rogues come onto a forum that is 90% percent women to piss and moan. Again if I'm totally wrong Then I apologize.

I gotta say, when I first read this, that was my thought too. First post, no connection to the guilds, WAY too emotional for a complete stranger to pop off with on a public board...

Hopefully he'll just wander off.

[Pathos]

Write her love poems. But don't leave them in her mailbox; her over-protective parents probably screen her mail.
Bob forgot to suggest that if her parents get ahold of your poems they might recognize your handwriting. A good way to prevent that is to cut all the letters out of magazines and paste them to the paper.

Also makes the poem more colorful.

[AnnaFaerie]

Ok...I know you guys are being "funny"...but this guy seems so close to the edge of reality about this girl...he may think what you are saying is a good idea. I know you were being sarcastic. Does he? And if he takes your "advice"....won't that be wonderful for all involved? I really think we need to be careful...he sounds very young....or very out there.

[WenchLadyKate]

Yea, young. Like 15. I hope he sees some of what they say as true (improbable but possible) because it might be funny... Anyway, if he sees this as real advice, then he deserves the stalking charge and isnt' really fit to be around real girls. Jail would then be the correct place for him. Ooops, did I say jail? I meant juvy. Sorry DarkAngel, but you sparked the snark in me.

[Savantage]

Dark Angel dude, chill if she hasn't contacted you in seven months, then she either can't see you ( various reasons her parents) or has moved on to another person. I've talked at length about this to my hubby, he had the same problems with girls they didn't seem to want a guy that was sensative to their needs and wants he was even told he was too nice and it creeped them out there is going to be a woman out there that will just be thrilled to have a good catch so don't get soured off of one female that spurns you, get out and network with friends, relatives, possibly co- workers just don't take rejection too seriously. I know a lost first love can be truely hurtful learn from it see the mistake and try not to repeat it. Who knows you might be suprised to find someone that feels the same way as you

[SilverMirth]

Dark-Angel, don't listen to the nattering nabobs of negativity here on the board. This place is mostly full of frustrated old hags whose best years are loooooooong behind them. ...*snip* ... The second most important thing you need to remember is that women like to be cryptic. Everything has a hidden meaning. For instance, restraining orders are just another way of saying "I love you".

Considering this guy sounds as if he needs serious professional help and has no clue what the word "sarcasm" would mean...this really may not be the best approach to give him.

[Selena]

to suck the joy from their souls like vampires until the person is left as nothing but a withering husk.


Uhhh-- YEEAUUHHH!
WEEENCHHH! ;-)

On another note... since Guild memberships are age restricted, shouldn't membership HERE be, as well?

[Lady Sarah]

Uhhh-- YEEAUUHHH!
WEEENCHHH! ;-)

On another note... since Guild memberships are age restricted, shouldn't membership HERE be, as well?

We asked Snipe if she'd consider it, but there were some issues with it that she didn't want to get involved in.

[MaidenFaeSnow]

Dude, call her, ONCE, ask her if she likes you. When she says "No" then you can finally say "The End" and file that chapter of your life safely away and open yourself up to new things ahead.

Unloading past baggage is the only way to move forward.

Ready? Go...

[Dark-Angel]

...preferably affixed to the brick with the love poem.!

A brick lol that's awesome dude, but I don't think I should be that aggressive.

[Dark-Angel]

This place is mostly full of frustrated old hags whose best years are loooooooong behind them. When they come across someone young and as full of life as you, they conspire to suck the joy from their souls like vampires until the person is left as nothing but a withering husk.

!

::lolsign: ::lolsign: ::lolsign: ::lolsign: ::lolsign: ::lolsign: ........harch dude, but funny. Thanks I needed that.

[Dark-Angel]

Dark-Angel, don't listen to the nattering nabobs of negativity here on the board. This place is mostly full of frustrated old hags whose best years are loooooooong behind them. When they come across someone young and as full of life as you, they conspire to suck the joy from their souls like vampires until the person is left as nothing but a withering husk.

But fear not brave soul. I'm here for you. I'm going to take care of you and guide you through these dark times.

First off, you've been approaching this problem from the wrong angle. You can't just sit back and wait. She obviously cares for you very deeply. She's just having her heart held hostage by her cold and bitter parents. As most married people do, they've forgotten what love is all about.

You need to be proactive. She'll never know your true feelings unless you tell them to her face. Repeatedly.

Leave her multiple messages on her voice mail.

Call her, but don't say anything if she answers. She'll know that you love her so much that you derive pleasure just from heraring her say "Hello? Hello? Who is this?".

Write her love poems. But don't leave them in her mailbox; her over-protective parents probably screen her mail. Deliver them through her bedroom window. This is easier if you tie the note to a brick first.

She needs to know that you are always on her mind. A good way to let her know is by secretly photographing her in public, from a distance with a telephoto lens, and sending her the pictures, preferably affixed to the brick with the love poem.

That's a good start for now. Don't expect her to fly into your arms right away though. Young women like to be coy and play hard to get. These things take time and lots effort. This is only the first of many, many steps. After you've done the above for a while, report back here with your results and I'll let you know where to go from there.

The most important thing for you to always remember is that love doesn't just "happen". It needs to be created, nurtured and grown. By force if necessary.

The second most important thing you need to remember is that women like to be cryptic. Everything has a hidden meaning. For instance, restraining orders are just another way of saying "I love you".


I hope this helps.


Solidarity, my brother!

Oh should I serenade her too? ::wicked::

[Dark-Angel]

When I first posted this topic I felt lost, lonely and confused. But now after reading what some of you have posted I feel a hell of a lot better. I guess laughter truly is the best medicine. Thanks.

::lolsign: ::lolsign: ::lolsign:

[Lady Sarah]

When I first posted this topic I felt lost, lonely and confused. But now after reading what some of you have posted I feel a hell of a lot better. I guess laughter truly is the best medicine. Thanks.

::lolsign: ::lolsign: ::lolsign:

Great. Now go over to the Hussies Hangout and introduce yourself, tell us who the fuck you are and why we should really be thrilled to keep you around.

[Margaret]

Zowie.

I go away for one day and look what happens!

D-A, can't add any more to what has been said, however, I have to agree with Sarah.

Introduce yourself - it's just polite.

So far I have seen 3 pretty distinct personalities from you (and granted, you may have been upset at the time and thus more melodramatic) so it may be nice to introduce yourself without the hulla balloo.

[Cyranno DeBoberac]

I guess laughter truly is the best medicine.
My father used to say that all the time.

Althought, in hindsight, that might explain why so many of my siblings died of turburculosis.....

[Cyranno DeBoberac]

Ok...I know you guys are being "funny"...but this guy seems so close to the edge of reality about this girl...he may think what you are saying is a good idea. I know you were being sarcastic. Does he? And if he takes your "advice"....won't that be wonderful for all involved? I really think we need to be careful...he sounds very young....or very out there.
*sigh* Someone always has to ruin it for everyone.... :wink:

I'm fairly certain that if what you suggest might happen does happen, it will have happened with or without our encouragement.

If he didn't read it here, he surely would have gotten the same ideas anyway from either his talking dog or the voices in his head. ::tinfoil:

[BlueSilkRibbon]

*sigh* Someone always has to ruin it for everyone.... :wink:

I'm fairly certain that if what you suggest might happen does happen, it will have happened with or without our encouragement.

If he didn't read it here, he surely would have gotten the same ideas anyway from either his talking dog or the voices in his head. ::tinfoil:


Its all fun and games until someones eye gets put out.

Shame on you Bob

[WenchLadyKate]

Great. Now go over to the Hussies Hangout and introduce yourself, tell us who the fuck you are and why we should really be thrilled to keep you around.

Yea, it's borderline rude to just come around a group of people who are familiar with each other and just start bitching about something. We'd love to keep you around, since you ptentially have a good sense of humor for taking our crap, so if you want to stick around, definately go on over to Welcome Wagon or Hussies Hangout and let us know who the hell you are!

[Ysobelle]

Its all fun and games until someones eye gets put out.




Say it with me, kids!


"Then it's fucking hilarious!"

[MaidenFaeSnow]

Say it with me, kids!


"Then it's fucking hilarious!"
*rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl* *rotfl*

You got THAT right!!!!!

Bob, your fucked up man (in a complimentary way of course;-) ) and your right, idiots will do what idiots will do, no one has to draw them a picture...HEY let's play pictionary!!!
http://www.creepingevil.com/eleanorerigby.jpg

[Cyranno DeBoberac]

Its all fun and games until someones eye gets put out.
...then, woo hoo! Free eye!

[Cyranno DeBoberac]

HEY let's play pictionary!!!
http://www.creepingevil.com/eleanorerigby.jpg

:thinking:

::groupco:

::readcar:

I'm utterly stumped.

Davy Crockett is dragging a porcelin comedy mask on a leash? WTF'nF?

[Alchemist23]

Elenor Rigby?

[SilverMirth]

*rotfl*http://www.creepingevil.com/eleanorerigby.jpg

perhaps its a mental breakdown::badhair:

[Rose N. Crantz]

I think the picture has a moral: don't drag your second face by a leash. Leave it in the jar on the step where it belongs.

Hells yeah.

[Jess Devyne]

Say it with me, kids!


"Then it's fucking hilarious!"


*rotfl* Exactly!!!!

[MaidenFaeSnow]

I think the picture has a moral: don't drag your second face by a leash. Leave it in the jar on the step where it belongs.

Hells yeah.

Ok, while that IS a good answer, it's wrong.

Eleanor Rigby is Correct!!

Beatles song...

"Eleanor Rigby, Wearing her face that she keeps in a jar by the door"

[Rose N. Crantz]

Ok, while that IS a good answer, it's wrong.

Eleanor Rigby is Correct!!

Beatles song...

"Eleanor Rigby, Wearing her face that she keeps in a jar by the door"

Okay, but I'm almost sure that was Eleanor Ribgy's motto. :wink:

[Pathos]

In the pic she's not wearing her face...she's dragging it.

::badhair:

[biker]

Its all fun and games until someones eye gets put out.


::poop:: get it right. its all fun and eyes till someone looses the game.

[Katie O'Connell]

In the pic she's not wearing her face...she's dragging it.

::badhair:

Hmmm... I wonder how far she's going to drag it.... Maybe it's a reference to:

'He had a face like five miles of bad road.'

And Elanor Rigby (I always thought) kept her face in a jar on INDOORS, and she put it on whenever she answered the door. No use keeping it OUTDOORS, or people would see it...

Oops. Threadjacked (or am I just a passenger?). Sorry.

[Alchemist23]

Okay, but I'm almost sure that was Eleanor Ribgy's motto. :wink:



LOL, I was just listening to that song today...Kansas version of course. Good stuff.