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Eric McTavish
01-03-2005, 10:44 AM
Intresting....and well confusing.... :?: :?:

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2002137518_divorce01m.html
Pregnant woman can't get a divorce, judge says

By The Associated Press

SPOKANE — A Spokane woman trying to divorce her estranged husband two years after he was jailed for beating her has been told by a judge she can't get out of the marriage while she's pregnant.

The case pits a first-year attorney who argues that state law allows any couple to divorce if neither spouse challenges it against a longtime family-law judge who says the rights of the unborn child in this type of case trump a woman's right to divorce.

"There's a lot of case law that says it is important in this state that children not be illegitimized," Spokane County Superior Court Judge Paul Bastine told The Spokesman-Review newspaper.

Further complicating things, Shawnna Hughes says her husband is not the child's father.

The judge argued that the paternity of Hughes' child needs to be determined before a divorce is finalized.

But the bottom line, says Hughes' attorney, Terri Sloyer, is that there's nothing in state law that says a woman can't get a divorce if she's pregnant.

"We don't live in 15th-century England," Sloyer said. "I am absolutely dumbfounded by it."

Hughes' husband, Carlos, was convicted in 2002 of beating her. She separated from him after the attack and filed for divorce last April. She later became pregnant, and her baby is due in March.

Her husband never contested the divorce, and Court Commissioner Pro Tem Julia Pelc approved it in late October.

However, the approved divorce papers didn't note that Hughes was pregnant. Sloyer filed amended papers to correct the omission, and the next day, she spoke with the judge by phone. Bastine said he planned to rescind the divorce, and then did so after a Nov. 4 hearing.

"It's not the child's fault that mom got pregnant," Bastine said. "The answer is, you don't go around doing that when you're not divorced."

Sloyer has appealed.

"This is a very dangerous precedent to set — particularly in this case, with a woman who is a victim of domestic violence," Sloyer said.

In comments submitted to Bastine, Hughes said: "If this court vacates my divorce and requires me to stay married to a man I have no desire ever to have a relationship with and who has brought significant physical harm to me over the years, I would be emotionally devastated. If the court vacates my divorce and stays it until the birth of my child, it will prevent me from marrying the father of my child prior to her birth."

The state's Uniform Parentage Act sets the rules on who cares for children, including those not yet born in cases of divorce. A husband is presumed to be the father of any child born up to 300 days after a divorce.

"One of the problems here was that the child was not made party to the litigation," Bastine said. "There are statutory provisions that deal with paternity. Those are the statutes that are critical ones that determine the rights of the child."

Hughes has stated in court records that the father is her boyfriend.

"She has the right to divorce and be free to marry whoever she wants," Sloyer said. "It's about the choice, the fundamental right to choose."

James Hardisty, a professor at the University of Washington School of Law, said he had never heard of a judge rescinding a divorce because of a woman's pregnancy. But he noted that a 1981 state Supreme Court ruling gives courts the right to put divorces on hold when matters like child custody and division of property still need to be resolved.

Copyright © 2004 The Seattle Times Company

Phoenix McHeit
01-03-2005, 10:56 AM
But he noted that a 1981 state Supreme Court ruling gives courts the right to put divorces on hold when matters like child custody and division of property still need to be resolved.


Well, ok. I can see that - but why does this paternity issue 'still need to be resolved'????

The hubby has been jailed since 2002... for domestic violence, no less. Surely they didn't have conjugal visits! Now I realize math isn't my strongest ability, but I do know a little teensy bit about pregnancy. And unless this woman is an elephant, there is no way she has been gestating that child for 2 years.

I'm just dumbfounded. Perhaps it's the judge's way of making sure this 'first year lawyer' crosses all i's and dots all t's, ;) because he didn't mention her condition in the original paperwork, but really. There are other ways to drive that particular point home.

I guess that'll learn em. :roll:

MaryDane
01-03-2005, 11:18 AM
This is an amazing legal system sometimes. I know somebody who had been considering divorce. Tried to "amend" things and in the process got pregnant. (eh :roll: - these things happen!) Things didn't work out. They decided to go forward with the divorce.

Texas legal system wouldn't touch the case until the child was 6 months old.
:?

Nevada
01-03-2005, 12:15 PM
sounds like another case of a judge trying to legislate morality

Ysobelle
01-03-2005, 12:17 PM
This is an amazing legal system sometimes. I know somebody who had been considering divorce. Tried to "amend" things and in the process got pregnant. (eh :roll: - these things happen!) Things didn't work out. They decided to go forward with the divorce.

Texas legal system wouldn't touch the case until the child was 6 months old.
:?


What was their reasoning there?


This whole thing scares me.

Ariyana Dragonwagon
01-03-2005, 01:53 PM
Actually I have been dealing with about the same thing.. while trying to save up the money to finalize my divorce (I started the paperwork earlier) I became pregnant with the man I love and adores child... we still planned to go ahead with the divorce... My ex was fine with it just stating in the papers that Iw as pregnant and it was not his.. but I was informed the judge more than likely would not grant the divorce till after the baby was born, so we have put it off till after I get tax $$ to pay for it. This situation totally sucks.. but then Ohio law states that if a pregnant woman was married at anytime during the pregnancy her husband must be put down as the father and paternity tests etc would need to be done after to change the birth certificate!! I swear the laws in this country and OH in particualr are archaic.. I could understand shoudl my ex have argued either the divorce or this child but he was more than willing to state in writing for the record that it was not his... stupid laws... ahh well here's to getting the divorce final in the first half of the new year and being more free to embrace this wonderful new life I have with the man I love, who feels more to me like a husband than anyone I have been married to because he truly is my soul mate....

Cyranno DeBoberac
01-03-2005, 06:42 PM
sounds like another case of a judge trying to legislate morality

The lawyer should inform the judge that unless he changes his ruling they will render the matter moot by aborting the fetus. See what Judge Dumphuque says then!!!