Throw a little good energy my way ladies

[luckynik]

I am brand spankin new, but you all sound like a level headed lot and I need some sane good energy my way. I actually joined you guys during a week of house arrest, more gently called "bed rest" by my doctor. Unfortunately the bed rest ended up with my husband and I having a miscarriage over the weekend. I know family and friends mean well with the "at least it was now and not when you were further along" and "you guys can try again in a month or two" I don't want to be ungrateful, but I don't feel lucky in any way right now...I know they mean well but geez. Anyway I thought maybe at least one of you out there had some words of wisdom, or good thought to toss my way. I really just neede to vent a bit :irked: I already feel a little better.

[saphoenixsilver]

I'm verry sorry for your loss, and some good thoughts are coming your way sister. I know that miscarriages in general are horrible experiances, and I hope that everything goes well with you health wise. Again, sorry for your loss. :grouphug:

[Phoenix McHeit]

First things first.... :grouphug:

I know what pain you are feeling, sister. May whatever deity you choose, bless you and hold you safe as your heart heals. I will light a candle for all 3 of you.

Warm thoughts and lots of hugs coming your way.

[Absinthe d'Accalia]

Healing energy for you & your hubby and the wee one that passed over too soon. :grouphug:

As for words of wisdom, I don't know if this will help or not, but my acupuncturist/healer that I went to when I lived in California had a different perspective on miscarriages (which she shared when I was going through girly-hell problems): she thought that perhaps the person who miscarried was a sanctuary for a soul that needed to rest for a short while before moving on to it's higher purpose.

I know that doesn't make it any better/easier/less sad, but maybe it is something to think on when you start wondering 'why?'

:grouphug:

[Ysobelle]

I'm so terribly sorry. That's such a heartbreaking thing to go through. Have some karma, and go easy on yourself.

[luckynik]

Thanks to all of you for your kind words and good wishes...they are appreciated!

[Psyche]

I am so sorry. Miscarriages are so difficult and heartbreaking. :grouphug: We just had another one on Valentine's Day, so can empathize.

Many positive thoughts being sent, and many more hugs. :grouphug:

[Bean]

You need to mourn your loss before you can heal and move on. Have some good energy from me, and I hope you all feel better soon.

[Lady Laurel]

I am so sorry for your loss it is a terrible thing.
I had a miscarriage about 14 years ago. I looked at if different and maybe it was just a way off getting me through. My grandmother had just died and then a few months later my mother passed away. Now they both have a grandchild to play with in Heaven.

[CinD]

You are in my thoughts and prayers! {hugs} c

[Buxom Wench]

The loss of a loved one, no matter how young, is never easy. Mourn for your lost child and mourn for you and your husband.
You've been through a terrible hurt and need time to heal.
People will say what they think you should hear but, I have found that a hug says more than words.
May all the good energy I send you (as well as others) help you to heal.
:grouphug:

[Lady Rosetta Cate]

oh my heart hurts for you. :cry: i have 4 children, all wenches in training, but i miscarried once too and i still carry a tiny space for that baby in my heart. i can smile about it now. it got easier with time. i figure that baby was a boy and he saw all those sisters in his future and he ran back to heaven yelling and screaming all the way! :wink: i will pray and pray for your comfort and for your sadness to give way to whimsy and smiles. and i will pray that God puts a precious baby in your life and soon!

with all my heart :love: ,

carole

[AnnaFaerie]

I miscarried over 30 years ago and I still think of that "lost child". I wouldn't have my beautiful only son if I had carried my lost baby to full term. I mourn that baby in my heart even though it doesn't hurt my heart anymore.
Take care of yourself. Your time will come.