family in need of good thoughts

[Laneya]

Hi ladies,

This is a really crappy post to have to write, but it's worth it if it helps.

My friend Jerry just lost his 3 year old son Jeramy to cancer yesterday. He & his family are having a very rough time & could use all the good thoughts/energy you could send their way.

Not sure what else to say.... this just sucks beyond belief. No one should ever have to bury their child. Ever.

The services are on Thursday & it's going to be a rough day......

[Buxom Wench]

:grouphug: :grouphug:
:grouphug: :grouphug: Many hugs prayers and blessings coming their way.
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[Lady Laurel]

That is horrible. My prayers go with the family.

[Laneya]

thanks

[AnnaFaerie]

My prayers go to the family and to you.

[Artemisia]

Reiki healing coming their way...

[Angel_of_Fire]

i will be praying for you and the family! i lost my mother to cancer 7 years ago and one thing i can tell you is it will get better but dont ever tell anyone that! i know i hated hearing it no matter how true it was. :grouphug: i will light a candle for them also!

[Laneya]

i will be praying for you and the family! i lost my mother to cancer 7 years ago and one thing i can tell you is it will get better but dont ever tell anyone that! i know i hated hearing it no matter how true it was. :grouphug: i will light a candle for them also!

I lost my grandmother & uncle to it within the last 2 years, and my dad has been struggling with it for the last 3, so I am right there with you. It seems so trite when anyone says it, but time does heal.

I can only hope that my friend & his family know that his son is not hurting any more, and (if at all possible) that is one good thing to come from this horrible tragedy.

[Galleywench]

I cannot fathom the pain your friend is going through right now..or will go through for the rest of their lives. My heart goes out to the family.

[MaidenFaeSnow]

:grouphug: to all of you....

[daBaroness]

As has already so eloquently been said, no one should ever have to say good-bye to their child or witness their child suffering in any way, shape or form. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend's family - may your mourning turn to happy memories of the time Jeremy spent here as an angel on Earth.

Dr. Phil talks about giving and finding meaning to your suffering and loss - perhaps in time your friends will have the opportunity to love and support someone else going through a family tragedy just as you love and support them now - or perhaps they'll find meaning by dedicating themselves to educating others about childhood cancer or by joining a support group and becoming mentors.

Dr. Phil also says time doesn't heal, but activity and a conscious choice to mourn and then move past the pain does heal - especially when one gives to others. I wish for you and your friends the chance to mourn and the chance to realize the blessings Jeremy brought - and then share those blessings with others so you may experience only joy in remembering and giving.

[Wolves Lady]

:grouphug: to the family, Loss is never easy, and the loss of a child is unthinkable. My heart grieves for them