Someone who untill I few day ago, I thought was a very good friend as suddenly been acting tottaly differnt towards me. On mermorial day weekend, everything was fine. Then she didn't talk to me the whole t txt week, and avioded me the next weekend. I emailed her and tried to set up a girls night out, and asked her if we'd been payed for some sewing we'd done.
Next thing I here, she's been telling people Ive gotten her in trouble with the irs. Didnt even called or email me about it, but told a whole bunch of other people inculding quite loudly..my boyfriend.
I write her an email telling her how this upset me since I cant seem to get her talk on the phone to me. She emails me back telling me everything annoying things I've done and all the things she's mad a me about...none of which she'd ever mentioned before. It didnt sound anything like the woman I'd come to see as my best friend. She wont tell me what she wants me to say or do to make whatever it is I did right...
I dont know what to do...do I write off what I thought was a good trusting friendship? Do I try to appease her with the money she claims she needs?
How did I not see this side of her, that could be so harsh and unfeeling?