ok, now I chatted with this guy for a while because I always wonder why they come to faire or assume wht they do of us.....so I try to draw it out....
well this one is a prize winner........
I hope he does not bother anyone else, I tried to warn him nicely.....
njmallman: Hi. Are you there?
Stella420blue: yes and you are?
njmallman: im chad a male from nj
Stella420blue: hi chad, male from NJ....I guessed you were a guy from NJ, why I have no idea.....must be psychic
Stella420blue: so how did you find me chad?
njmallman: on wench .org
njmallman: im 36 and u
Stella420blue: ahh and what are you doing on wench.org?
njmallman: looking for a lady who might enjoy me
Stella420blue: and what do you mean by that?
njmallman: well some women like to use men to do chores for them
Stella420blue: ahh so you assume because I am on the wench board I dominate men?
njmallman: no i dont think that but you might enjoy a man cleaning for u or taking you out for a play
Stella420blue: and why were you on the wench board? how did you find it?
njmallman: a mistress I served told me about it
Stella420blue: ahhh.......and what was she a wench?
njmallman: no she was a lady who loves leather
Stella420blue: did you or her ever go to faires? I mean just because she liked leather....what brought her to the wench boards?
njmallman: i dont know but i do like the site it is intersting
njmallman: i did go to a fair with her i was collared
Stella420blue: well how many women did you attempt to message tonight? and you wore a collar and were brought around on a leash? why? I mean why there? what would possess you to let her do that to you there?
njmallman: i was her servant and i did as i was told to do
njmallman: u are the only lady i contacted tonight
Stella420blue: did you do it anywhere else? like the mall or the library?
njmallman: no only at her home
Stella420blue: so why at faire....what is it about faire that made her say, hummm let me put his ass in a collar and drag him around at this location all day?
njmallman: well she knew that large women excited me and she wanted me to feel powerless around them
Stella420blue: so you went to the faire to look at big women?
Stella420blue: or she wanted to tease you?
njmallman: i love big women and she wanted to make me suffeer
Stella420blue: did you register to the wenches board?
ahhh so she wanted you to see women in garb?
njmallman: are u over 35
njmallman: well she like to mentally hurt me
Stella420blue: and why the name njmallman?
njmallman: i live in nj near all of the malls
Stella420blue: well there are a lot of malls all over nj!
njmallman: im near paramus
Stella420blue: ahhh, so are you still with her?
njmallman: no I am not may i ask have u ever controoled a man
Stella420blue: all women control men
njmallman: would u like to control me
Stella420blue: so you came to the wenches board to find women, preferably larger who dress up?
njmallman: no i came to find women who might enjoy having a man do chores for them
Stella420blue: aren't there sites dedicated solely to that kind of thing?
njmallman: yes but many of the women are violent and i think the women on wenches are caring
Stella420blue: look, let me give you some advice......
njmallman: yes Madam
Stella420blue: the wenches are VERY caring, but approaching us by IM and asking if we want to control you and make you do chores is not the way to do it
Stella420blue: and I am not your madam
njmallman: stella im sorry i approached you wrong im sorry
njmallman: nay i call u stella
Stella420blue: well I am saying all of this in the nicest way possible....you want to get to know wenches, then come to faires, introduce yourself....meet the people, get to know them, then MAYBE down the road you may meet someone who will fulfill your needs, but going about it this way will only give you a hard way to go with ANY of the wenches
njmallman: stella im chad im 36 and im from fair lawn
Stella420blue: that is great chad, bt I would suggest you go to faire and meet peole that way....just an IM asking this kind of thing is highly inappropriate, especially from a stranger, much less that you really do not attend faire
njmallman: stella do u live near nj
Stella420blue: and believe me....I am giving you this advice nicely, you IMed me asking me things, never even knowing me or anything
Stella420blue: or anything about me
njmallman: stella are u single
Stella420blue: for all you know I am a child, or a man, or married to an fbi agent
Stella420blue: and I am being MUCH nicer then MOST of the wenches.....we get these types of IM's very often
njmallman: true but i did ask ur age and i told u im 36
njmallman: true but i did ask ur age and i told u im 36
njmallman: are u over 25
Stella420blue: no you simply asked if I was over 35 and I never anwsered
njmallman: well are u
Stella420blue: I am of age
njmallman: are u a cop
Stella420blue: wouldn't you like to know
Stella420blue: see how scary it can be
njmallman: are u jewish
Stella420blue: and what if I am....what difference would that make?
njmallman: stella is a jewish name
Stella420blue: it is an IM name and no it is not a "jewish" name
njmallman: well i was just wondering
Stella420blue: so how long have you been lurking on the wenches board?
njmallman: u seem very educated
njmallman: tonight is the 1st time
Stella420blue: thank you, my college would be proud
njmallman: stella are u married
Stella420blue: well I would suggest you not try to randomly contact any other wenches......
Stella420blue: much less for what you are asking for
njmallman: do u like sushi
Stella420blue: yes I am married
Stella420blue: what do you care if I like sushi?
njmallman: do u ever come to nj
Stella420blue: are you trying to ask me out to lunch?
njmallman: are u ever in nj
Stella420blue: I live in NJ
njmallman: would lunch or coffee ever be an option
Stella420blue: no, never
njmallman: ok do u work near teaneck
Stella420blue: after everything I said, you wanted to ask me to coffee?
Stella420blue: you are a mess
njmallman: well i only meet in public places
Stella420blue: good for you, please do not ever contact me or any of the wenches......they are my family and I will be letting everyone I know know about this conversation
njmallman: do u like leather
Stella420blue: see funny thing about us wenches, we give out all of the info from these types of IM's on the boards so everyone knows to keep an eye out for you
Stella420blue: you are not the first
njmallman: would u like me to clean for u
Stella420blue: see now, this is the funny part...have you not gotten the hint?
njmallman: are u a big lady
Stella420blue: that is none of your business, and I know you are enjoying this, so it is time for it to end Chad.....
Stella420blue: first off, use proper englsh, not ghetto IM speak....also as I said you know nothing about me, and obviously the wenches, so go away....find another site to meet women on publicly, not the wenches board
njmallman: Stella, you are a fine Lady and I would ask for you to please help me
Stella420blue: how do you know I am a fine lady? you do not know me, and as for help, yes you need it, but not the kind I could give you
Stella can you please help me
Stella420blue: do what
njmallman: Stella im a nice man im married but i need to feel that I am worthy
njmallman: Currrently I feel I am not a good man and I need a lady to allow me to show that i am a good and worthy man
Stella420blue: look go now, do not come to the wenches for that......we are not what you think we are, apparently....I have wasted enough of my life on you.....ask your wife to make you worthy.....now please leave me alone already.......if you really feel you are that needy come to a faire and ask for me......I will make you worthy....of what you will never want to know
njmallman: Please Stella
Stella420blue: as I said, come to a faire and ask for me.....see how worthy you become then asshat
Stella420blue: good riddance
njmallman: may i buy you leather gloves
Stella420blue: yeah you do that
njmallman: silk lined from lord and taylor
Stella420blue: I prefer burberry, see you know nothing about me
njmallman: well May I buy you what ever yleather gloves you desire
Stella420blue: no you may not, now go away