Okay, thinking caps on...if we are all equally shy and afraid to make the first introduction or to even say hello, maybe we should come up with a secretive way of bringing attention to us as members. Something unique. I know some of us have the pins, but they aren't easily seen and some of us have more than one. So maybe we need something more obvious. Like a ribbon of a certain color with a bell on our wrist or tied at the shoulder of our bodice. Maybe we can come up with a mutually agreed sympol to wear on our bodice more noticable than the pin? Maybe being more obvious to who we are will give us more ease to make that first move.